Info for Smart women and men that make bad choices in mates!!

Based on the past couple of months of Tiger Wood’s foolish infidelity and most recently Jesse’s James’ idiotic behavior, there are couple of things that come to mind.  First, there is some definite blame that should go to Elin and Sandra.  If there men had no past history of arrogant/asshole behavior then the infidelity would most certainly be a surprise, however that is not the case with either men.  Truly what you see is what you get, and sometimes for the sake of love or some other “pie in the sky, rose colored glasses notion”, common sense is unfortunately given a vacation.  Such is the case with these two women that I am more than certain were given enough clues to how their men truly were, but they either refused to believe it or they just plain ignored it.  I present you with a paraphrased version of the frog and the scorpion.  One day there was a scorpion that was trying to get from ones side of a lake to the other, he approached a frog and asked him for a ride.  The frog declined saying that the scorpion would sting him and they would drown, however the scorpion promised he would do no such thing, and the two continued to debate for hours until the frog finally agreed.  While the frog was swimming in the middle of the lake, with the other shore in sight, the scorpion stung him.  The frog said to the scorpion, “you promised you wouldn’t sting me!”  The scorpion said, “yeah I know, but what do you expect, I am a scorpion!’”  And of course the two drowned.  It is not about height, race, money, ethnicity, but it is about the heart/intention that always reveals itself, the question is, ARE YOU LISTENING???!!!!