Corey Haim, gone too soon? Or not?

Today, family, friends, and numerous domestic and international fans mourn the loss of a true seventies/eighties great, Corey Haim. Although he died of an “apparent” overdose as characterized by Providence St. Joseph’s Hospital in Burbank, Ca, the harsh reality is that no one truly dies of an apparent overdose.  I am certain that his mother and other close family and friends continued to support him up until his last breath to “stay the course  or keep it clean” but as we all can see, those decisions ultimately rest with the person.  I don’t feel any need to play dimes store psychologist with this man’s life, but these are the unfortunate lessons that those who are new to the business or are experiencing a major falling off of sorts, really need to consider.  The fan in me really mourns his loss, but the parent in me feels devastated more so for his mother, as she stood by him with many others wouldn’t, as that was her baby.  This is the selfish and powerful hold that drugs have on some people’s lives, so efffin tragic.  All we can do is support his mother, and try to remember Corey for the joy he brought to so many.  Live your life to the best of your ability, because no day is promised to any of us!!